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The Enduring Popularity of β€˜The Surrendered Wife’

The best-selling author Laura Doyle believes women can be too controlling. Many women β€” of all types β€” credit her with saving their marriages.

The message in β€œThe Surrendered Wife,” the best-selling book by Laura Doyle, was provocative. Many women credit it with saving their marriages.

Laura Doyle, author of β€œThe Surrendered Wife" and several other books, alongside her husband, John Doyle. Credit...

Vivian Yee writes about women in America. She visited Laura Doyle, read some of her books and talked to women who have practiced her method for this story.

Laura Doyle, best-selling author of β€œThe Surrendered Wife” and several other books that promise to teach women to save their marriages, no matter how oafish their husbands might seem, has a question for me, the journalist who has come to Southern California to interview her. β€œAre you bossy?” she asks me, softly, almost shyly. β€œAre you controlling?”

I flash back to my ex, who labeled me controlling for pushing him to quit smoking, go out more, eat what I wanted to eat and take his shoes off inside my apartment.

β€œUm,” I stammer. β€œSome people would probably say so.”

By Vivian Yee and Isadora Kosofsky
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